There are no concrete rules in BDSM other than consent; this cannot be expressed enough. This ensures that kinky discovery is a journey the participant manifests individually and not by way of hard rules and definitions. The community aims to accept and welcome people and fetishes of all kinds, and encourages all people to partake in sexual exploration, whatever the variety. Don't ever be afraid to question your sexual preferences or identity. However, it is imperative to remember that:
Consent and safety of community members are the community's #1 concern, and our #1 concern. As such, we DO NOT condone any behavior deemed inappropriate by contemporary community standards. Questions of appropriate behavior are taken even more seriously when it comes to BDSM and Fetish play via web camming. These guidelines are in place to keep you safe and help you get the most out of your virtual fetish/BDSM experience. You might just experience a sexual revelation that helps with your self-confidence, or even helps you understand and accept a sexual desire you were already aware of. We encourage you to explore your sexual desires in a safe, sane, consensual and virtual manner from the comfort of your computer screen.