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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.
With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
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With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.
With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
It's bad to hear what happens to you, in my case I have never had an experience like that, I think as you say that when you take the model for a long time you wait even if it is at the end cum show and much more if it is natural. I know of some models who do that because when I was a VIP I saw some videos and then I know which models to never take on pvt Quote
With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
It's bad to hear what happens to you, in my case I have never had an experience like that, I think as you say that when you take the model for a long time you wait even if it is at the end cum show and much more if it is natural. I know of some models who do that because when I was a VIP I saw some videos and then I know which models to never take on pvt Quote
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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.
With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.
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With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.
With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.
The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.
It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.
What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry!
First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.
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First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.
I very much agree with you gofish, that would have been a very good solution Quote
It's bad to hear what happens to you, in my case I have never had an experience like that, I think as you say that when you take the model for a long time you wait even if it is at the end cum show and much more if it is natural. I know of some models who do that because when I was a VIP I saw some videos and then I know which models to never take on pvt
Yes, I should learn to assess the models before I take them private. I make the decision to take someone private by impulse. I don't plan ahead of time. That is the problem. Looks like I have to change that habit. Thank you.
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First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.
Thank you. None of the three models offered me any FREE minutes. Even if one of them had, I probably would not have come to the conclusion that led to starting this thread. I don't think any of them felt they owed me anything. I thought I will get a "thank you" note by email from the guy I spent 6340 credits on. Nope! Complete silence.
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Thank you. None of the three models offered me any FREE minutes. Even if one of them had, I probably would not have come to the conclusion that led to starting this thread. I don't think any of them felt they owed me anything. I thought I will get a "thank you" note by email from the guy I spent 6340 credits on. Nope! Complete silence.
Oh I understand. In my house to have a better pvt, before starting a pvt I spoke to them and said what I want, also to know if they are willing to do what they like or not, also because I don't know if they have done a cum show before, for If that's what I want, and if I hope you can change that, don't take the models with impulse so that it doesn't happen to you again. Quote
You spent 3-1/2 hours and more than 6,000 credits in a private and didn't get what you wanted? You are a slow learner.
You don't like to let models know what you want? You will remain frustrated for the rest of your life unless and until you learn to communicate. It can be quite a turn-on to tell a performer how much you want to see his cock explode in front of the camera or shoot on his chest or face. Quote
You don't like to let models know what you want? You will remain frustrated for the rest of your life unless and until you learn to communicate. It can be quite a turn-on to tell a performer how much you want to see his cock explode in front of the camera or shoot on his chest or face. Quote
Set up what they will do in time and credits 3hrs I would never
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I understand totally the balance between spontaneity and contractual agreements. I tend to be impulsive when I am horny and not particularly rational or in a negotiating mood.
It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain". Quote
It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain". Quote
I understand totally the balance between spontaneity and contractual agreements. I tend to be impulsive when I am horny and not particularly rational or in a negotiating mood.
It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain".
I know this is a business transaction and should not expect things to happen spontaneously. It is not a real life date. Some day I will get to that place. "I give you this. You give me that. We are both happy."
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It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain".
I know this is a business transaction and should not expect things to happen spontaneously. It is not a real life date. Some day I will get to that place. "I give you this. You give me that. We are both happy."
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